I have been part of a social and confidence program for 6 months. Overall it has been excellent however I have not put in the effort and time needed. I had other goals I wanted to achieve simultaneously alongside day game. I wanted to improve in jiu jitsu, I wanted to learn to free dive as well. What I keep realizing over and over again in life is that we generally can only focus on one goal at a time. The best way to achieve in life is to specialize. That can be applied to all aspects of life. In general, the more specialized you are the more valuable you are. Hence, specialized doctors and dentists make more money.

My full-time focus is my social confidence and ability to attract woman. This past week I did 30 direct approaches. My goal is 30 a week and slowly pushing that to 50. Mystery famously said, “the game is played in the field.” I am approaching this as a video game I am trying to improve in. Every rejection is a study, and an opportunity to level up.

What is my opening strategy. It is simple

1. Open with. “Excuse me! (with strength and confidence almost being rude” a pause with a smile followed by, “I was walking, thought you were cute and had to say hi.”
2. They will say a remark or thank you and at which point I will make an observation:
   • “You have an exotic look to you, you’re not from around here are you?”
   • “What caught my eye about you was your carefree vibe and flow, just floating through life.”
3. At which point they usually give me something to work with such as they are from Colombia, Ukraine, Texas etc. I will respond with Personal Input that is usually funny or teases her.
   • When I think of Colombia (for example)…I can’t shouldn’t say to be honest
4. If I start seeing Indicators of interest such as crossed legs, hair playing, fighting, or facing me. I will try and add some comfort by asking general interview style question.
   • “Kathy from Colombia, cute smile, model….what more should I know about her”
5. Close
   • “I have to get going but I find you attractive and want to take you out for coffee. Lets exchange numbers.”

This week I really want to work on a solid approach and personal input. Two areas I have been weak in.

Let’s fucking go!

Who am I and what’s the purpose of writing. I am a 36 year old male living in Fort Lauderdale, of 5’8 height, and work as medical professional. A few important details I include to emphasize that I am of average looks, almost middle aged, and have painstakingly worked towards a goal that has earned me financial freedom. I spent 33 years of my life building myself to this point in the hopes that I would have a hot wife today. I love my life and am so grateful for everything I have been given and achieved. However, romantic freedom has eluded me.

What I have learned is that financial status, looks (excluding 6’3 ripped caucasian chad), physique on there own don’t get you the girl of your dreams. At least that has been my experience.

Stories aside, I am now on a quest to gain romantic freedom, meaning I can actively go out in my day to day life to meet and attract quality woman.

Will I get there…I hope so! But either way I am in this for the long haul. My experiences, my downfalls, my triumphs are all things I hope to share here. My sincere hope is that I look back in two years and can savor the journey towards the most important life goal.